For the first weeks of getting to know you, were effortlessly wonderful. But you see like every good thing, Relationship needs work or at least make sure it doesn’t suffer from neglect. If you fall in love with someone who makes you happy—great, but that’s not all. You need to make sure it does not come off the rails.
Firstly, you must make sure that both parties are in love, the feeling must be mutual. Loving or trying to get people to love you is a colossal waste of time and energy. You have to understand that keeping all the rules with the wrong person won’t make you happy although it will keep the relationship together. So be with someone that wants you to be happy and is prepared at least to meet you half-way in making that happen.
What happened to the old fashion civility? Pay them compliments, get them gifts for no reason at all except for the most important one of all– because you love them. Pour them a drink, ask them how their day went and listen to them talk. Be interested. Be nice not because you want them to reciprocate (although that will be very nice) but because you love them and they deserve it.