Talking to each other allows you know what you are thinking or feeling. Talking is what allows you access into your partners head, otherwise you won’t know what makes them tick and you won’t be able to make them happy as you should. When in bad times,don’t talk about how your partner should feel or think-that’s their business- just let them know how you feel and think.
Talking is not all about the big stuff, talk about the small stuffs,what they did today or whether they agree with the article on the paper or story on the news. You need to communicate in order to stay in touch and close to each other.
They are days you just want to hold hands and chill out thinking your own thoughts, but you need to make sure you spend plenty of time talking to each other and listening to what they have to say. Even if the topic doesn’t grip you, the most important thing is you are learning what intrigues, upsets and amuses your partner.
If you want your partner to love you for who you are,give them something to go on. We are made up of thoughts and feelings and you need to pass these on to your partners to be sure they know how to please and who it is they love.
This doesn’t give you the right to bore your partner. If you know they are left cold by the rules of PES3 or the details of a shopping trip,don’t impose it on them. Your partner is going to listen to what you have to say, so have an eye for quality as well as quantity. As your best friend,make sure you are the person they want to talk to when they feel the need to talk.