Sadly people still make relationship decisions based on outward or physical appearance. Sensual seduction eventually leads to decisions you will usually regret.
It’s true we all desire a particular spec. We have a mental picture of how we want our relationship to be.
It might interest you to know that Your want has nothing to do with his bank account, his cars, his physical qualities.
You know why?
Because his power clothes cannot satisfy your true desire for intimacy, friendship and romantic connection.
Before we continue, lets clear something up, Man is a Spirit, has a soul and lives in a body. The spirit finds expression through the body, one of the problems we have is trying to satisfy the body rather than seeking to understand the leadings of the spirit. Of this 3 parts, the body is the lesser of them.
Proverbs 31:30 Gracefulness is decietful, beauty is vain.
So rather than look at the physical, what you should seek to know is
“what motivates this person?
“What are his values?
” Where is the place of God in his or her life?.
Before going into a relationship ask yourself,
“What is the purpose of this relationship and to what end?
Sometimes we get into relationships because we are bored with our lives. But understand one thing, boredom is a state of mind. Until we learn to enjoy and feel comfortable with your own selves, we won’t enjoy the company of others which will eventually lead to series of relationship because you will be constantly looking for something different… And we tend to seek validation from others by developing a purposeless relationship which is usually driven by lust..
Until next time on LOVE & LIES,