Flirting, according to Wikipedia, is a social and sometimes sexual behavior involving verbal or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person, or if done playfully, for amusement….
Well, in this case we will are interested in a deeper relationship.
1). CONVERSATION STATER
If you don’t know her, start off by asking her name. Pay her
a compliment. “That shirt is a great color on you” or
“I couldn’t help noticing the way that necklace really brings
out your eyes.”
Set up a conversation starter without talking to her. For instance,
if she’s wearing a shirt with the logo of a great band on it, and
you have some of that band’s music on your iPod, then put your
earbuds on and slightly turn the iPod screen toward her so that
she can see what’s playing.. You never know what triggers her fancy.
2). BE YOURSELF
Even if your act does impress her momentarily, you’ll lose her trust and interest when she
figures out you’ve been trying to fool her. Girls can smell a liar, so you’re better off being
who you are from the beginning. Do not attempt extreme images such as:
-Super-smooth and fly
3). CONFIDENCE LEVEL.
Truthfully, most girls want guys to make the first move, so think
of a great question to ask her. Even if you don’t feel confident
at first, you’ll definitely get more comfortable when she responds to you.
Again, if you know her, then ask her something that encourages her to
talk. “What did you do this weekend?” or “How did you do on that project?”
are both easy openers that also burst your confidence.
Openers are all about delivery. If you’re going with a casual opening
question, then deliver it with confidence and look like you’re really
interested in what she has to say.
If she seems interested in you, she’ll turn her body toward you, make
turn away or look over her shoulder at you, and she might roll her eyes
or look down her nose at you.
Girls can be complicated! If she likes you back and doesn’t want to admit
it, or is too shy she may look down, giggle, not answer your questions
(or say things like, “it’s up to you”), or blushes (a dead giveaway).
Also, she could be playing hard-to-get, and in that case, try to say
things that might open her up. Ask questions, wait until she answers them and then make comments to show that you were listening.
4). SEDUCE HER MIND
One of my popular saying is “seduce her mind and you can have her Body, make love to her soul and she will be yours.” No porn intended.
She has to know that your thinking pattern is on the same wave length as hers. Learn what she likes and encourage her to discuss the subjects that she
feels passionate about.
Avoid interrupting her while she’s talking. Constant interruption is a major
turnoff because it makes you look like you only care about yourself.
You can also start a flirtatious argument with her. For instance, if she loves D’banj
and you Don jazzy, then you can tease her about the rivalry. You’ll both
love to banter back and forth. However, never start a serious argument with
her with anything serious such as politics or religion, that’s a big “NO.”
5). BE COURTEOUS & HUMOROUS
If you can’t think of anything else to say, look at her and hold her hand and
smile while looking at her eyes, as long as you know she’ll not feel uncomfortable with you making physical contact.. If she does feel uncomfortable and pulls her arm away, take the hint and reel yourself in a bit.
Have a good sense of humour. I’m not saying you should turn to a comedian. Teasing a girl can be a good way to put her at ease and keep things interesting.
Just don’t joke about something that may be a sensitive issue and never, ever joke about her weight.
Find something that you both think is hilarious a turn it into an inside joke &&&
6). NEXT LEVEL.
If the conversation is going really well, then you can do a couple of things:
Ask for her phone number.
The next morning, shoot her a quick text saying,
to say good morning. I’ve been thinking about how much I loved our conversation.”
responds positively, then call her within a couple of days.
Invite her out on a date. If she mentions something that she would like to do, like checking
out a movie then say,
“I’ve been wanting to do that to. Want to go together?”
Make it a little more physical. Ask her to dance and see how close she gets to you. If you’re
feeling it, and it looks like she expects it, brush your lips against hers.
But if she isn’t feeling it,
“remember you need cutlery to take chop slap.” You might find solace in the saying that, “stolen kisses are the best”.
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